i was moved by the authenticity and care of katz’ energy, presentation, and way of discussing these issues. he even… Read more addressing violence against women via an ally with male privilege: jackson katz
Category: healing
dear wayne: meditations on humiliation
a dear friend of mine bought wayne koestenbaum’s book “humiliation” while we were together in winnipeg, this winter. we decided… Read more dear wayne: meditations on humiliation
not knowing
sometimes i begin writing a post for this blog, and am overwhelmed by the knowledge of how tiny my “knowledge”… Read more not knowing
returnings
i have taken an unexpected hiatus the past couple months… i said goodbye to a dear lover two weeks ago,… Read more returnings
oxygen
how did you know just the place to touch me hardening with my moans sucking at my lips as though… Read more oxygen
dave naz: the trans docu project
just discovered this trans docu project by dave naz tonight on violet blue’s tinynibbles, and wanted to share! i really… Read more dave naz: the trans docu project
bone-melting love
i was perusing elephant journal this morning and came across this rebecca lammersen article on making unknowable love. i felt… Read more bone-melting love
a note to my lover
if i weren’t afraid of being sappy, i would tell you about how i feel right now. the mellow, slow… Read more a note to my lover
poly-what?
i have two lovers. i see them both regularly. i love and am loved by them both. they are both… Read more poly-what?
bdsm practitioners more psychologically evolved than their vanilla counterparts?
i’ve been curious for some time about the potentially healing benefits of bdsm (“BDSM is a variety of erotic practices… Read more bdsm practitioners more psychologically evolved than their vanilla counterparts?