masturbating christians

i came across this article today on elephant journal, and was intrigued by a story so similar to my own…… Read more masturbating christians

queen nicki

i bow down (again) to the prowess and badassedness of nicki minaj. she has once again caused a delightful media… Read more queen nicki

i was moved by the authenticity and care of katz’ energy, presentation, and way of discussing these issues. he even… Read more addressing violence against women via an ally with male privilege: jackson katz

a dear friend of mine bought wayne koestenbaum’s book “humiliation” while we were together in winnipeg, this winter. we decided… Read more dear wayne: meditations on humiliation

sometimes i begin writing a post for this blog, and am overwhelmed by the knowledge of how tiny my “knowledge”… Read more not knowing

i have taken an unexpected hiatus the past couple months… i said goodbye to a dear lover two weeks ago,… Read more returnings

if i weren’t afraid of being sappy, i would tell you about how i feel right now. the mellow, slow… Read more a note to my lover

i’ve been curious for some time about the potentially healing benefits of bdsm (“BDSM is a variety of erotic practices… Read more bdsm practitioners more psychologically evolved than their vanilla counterparts?

fuck me until i break until your mouth inhales my screams and this emptiness inside of me folds in on… Read more unbreakable

today is national down syndrome day. as an ally of the disability community, i’d like to take this opportunity to… Read more national down syndrome day – sex & disability